[29ASR2d53]
IN THE MATTER OF A MINOR CHILD
High
Court of
Trial
Division
JR
9-95
[1] In determining the divestiture of
parental rights for the purpose of subsequent adoption, a child's best
interests come first. A child’s
interests are not best served by legally severing the parent-child relationship
when the child is living with her natural parents, who provide her support.
Before
Counsel: For Petitioners, Robert A. Porter,
L.P.
Opinion and Order:
Petitioners are requesting that their parental
rights and obligations to their daughter, age two years, be divested so that
the paternal grandmother can adopt the child.
The hearing was held on
The grandmother cares for this only child on a daily
basis, while the natural parents are at work.
The other children of her former marriage are grown and have their own
homes. The natural parents live with her
and the child, and are the breadwinners of the family. The grandmother has combined income from
Social Security and retirement of less than $400 per month. We do not question her love and affection for
the child. Certainly, she has, and can
continue to have, a significant and regular role in the child's
upbringing.
[1] However, the child's best interests come first. The child's interests are not best served by
legally severing the parent-child relationship when she is living with her natural
parents, who provide her support. It is
inappropriate to change family norms at this time. If they have more children, and in any event,
when the grandmother passes on, the natural [29ASR2d54] parents will understand
this observation. Now is the time that
they and the grandmother should recognize and accept this reality.
The petition is denied for these reasons. It is so ordered.